Just a tip for those interested in persuasion technology...
There a few subtle ways influence a persons mind. The most useful
of these is called NLP (neurolinguistic programming).
for example:
"I just wanted to pop in and find out if... (PAUSE) you wanna get
your windshield repaired today". A subtle pause allows a persons
mind to absorb the info after the pause. And rather than pitch the
tone UP at the end of the statement like a question... pitch it
DOWN. The subconsious mind accepts it as a command. No joke.
The use of pauses is a very powerful communication trick. So is
adjusting your tonality... anything u say that ends with your
tonality going UP sounds like a question... anything you end with
a DOWNward pitch is accepted as a command... but very subtly.
The use of commands in this way is called "imbedded commands"...
it is a very powerful way to get folks to think in a certain way. It's
hypnotic qualities allow those commands to go past a persons
conscious mind and into the subconscious... where u want it.
You can also use tricks to gain more rapport with people quickly....
Such as:
1) mirroring motions (making similar movements (they sratch their
ear u scratch your nose)
2) mirroring posture (they stand tall and straight u do to... they slouch... so do u)
3) mirroring vocal tempo (do NOT talk fast to someone who talks slow and vice versa)
and dont be afraid to mirror folks... DO NOT mimmick... do this subtly
in every intereaction with the people in your life and you will notice
a huge jump in rapport. The mirrored actions can even be used
up to about 20 after the person you are mirroring does them.
One thing that I have found very useful is this fact:
Whatever you can get a person to imagine, THAT person perceives
it as being THEIR own idea...
People will go with their OWN ideas before going with something that you have to agrue with reason, facts and data.
Don't be scared to let people know that they are NOT safe as long as their
WS in broken... have them imagine WHO would be hurt the most by
that windshield failing if they ever had a wreck. Sounds harsh I know...
but it works. Then say "when u think about it just like that... (pause)
doesn't it just make sense to... (pause) go ahead and get that WS repaired today... (pause) and keep your family safe" This causes them to go INSIDE and replay that tragedy in their mind... then it offers the command (go ahead and get that WS repaired today...AND... keep your family safe)
Will people be shocked by this stuff? you bet... and that is why my close
rate is nearly 75% or better. It is so different from the reason, facts and data that people are used to... when people hear the reason, facts and data its like a big wall goes up inside their mind. They are used to rejecting that type of stuff all the time.
Here is a link for those interested in learning about some basic NLP
http://www.saladltd.co.uk/archive.htm
Now I know some of you may not like these techniques. Thats ok.
Some of you may say "thats mind control"... yes it is. Everyday
we are influencing everyone we deal with. Why not make the most of
it? You can either use these techniques and learn more about effective
communication OR not. the choice is yours to make.
If you don't like this kinda stuff then dont use it... and don't flame
me for sharing this knowledge.
The most effective speakers and leaders in this world harness this
ability to capture and lead a persons imagination.
But remember... this stuff is NOT theory guys. NLP is a proven
technology for influencing people... in every situation. It is the same
technology used by Tony Robbins (only he uses it very weakly) and it
is also the basis of the guys doing "speed seduction". And yes that
seduction stuff DOES work... trust me

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For more info... search the net for: NLP, Richard Bandler (father of NLP)
Good stuff if ya put it to use. The best parts of NLP are the techniques
used INSIDE your own mind for bettering yourself.
BTW... this stuff is the perfect compliment to those using Coisters approach...
As you find yourself in the field beginning to... use these tricks to gain increased rapport... don't be surprised to find your close rate increasing.
Now I am not suggesting that you... imagine yourself being able to influence anyone, anytime.... but when you think about it just like that... doesn't it just make sense to open your mind completely... now, to me... as I see it... an open mind is the most powerful tool you can use.
Can you find all the imbedded commands in that last paragraph?
